This is me at the moment, other than playing with a party, and it works.
As a solo player I have always been at the mercy of my team mates. I'm average, certainly not good enough to turn a game around on my own. My last two matches demonstrate this perfectly...
Both matches on Carrier,
first one, I went 25-7, 4 caps, 7 defends, we lost 170-126
second one, I went 19-5, 2 caps, 6 defends, we won 200-45
For me right now, the harder you try in this game the worse your results. For now I will take the easy option, and build confidence with the maps and weapons slowly. I'm sure others wont like it, but that's just tough I'm afraid.