I wish I could say its different on PSN but its not a**holes will be a**holes in any setting unfortunately lol

I have a couple of ladies i play with everynight. I make fun of them all the time. because they are baaaaaad! Usually they talk more trash then i do..It hurts my feelings

Oh girl...I feel your pain.  If you could see my inbox of all the 'love and attention' I get from guys who send me messages after the end of matches!  A few of them even wound up with a 24 hour cooling off period courtesy of Microsoft for their colorful choices of words.  I typically run in a xbox live party for that reason alone.  I can probably count on one hand the times I've been dropped into a lobby where the players have been cool cats to team up with.  But for every 1 game that is fantastic team work...there's 20 more that go downhill fast.  If I do run solo, I'll typically keep my mic muted until I can get a good idea of who is in the lobby.  You can normally figure out in less then 5 seconds whether it's going to be a good or bad one.  It sucks...I know.  But I'm seeing more and more women gamers out there playing regularly...so hopefully that will be a trend that will stick.